Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Nice R.A.K!

Well hello and very much a very good morning to you, my little monkey socks. Right deep breath in everyone . . .and hold it . . . keep holding it . . . and breathe out and relax. Maybe finish it off with a new big stretch and a good shake . . . Sorry, I was a little distracted by the thought of you stretching there. Am I the only one who finds the act of stretching a little bit, you know, *hushed tone* sexy? Sorry. Right, where was I? . . . Ah yes! You can't beat a good shake after a big stretch you know! No really! You should try it!

Well, a brand spanking new Thursday (Friday Eve) has arrived with us. Just a thought, why do people describe stuff as being brand "spanking" new? . . . No? . . . No, me either! Maybe it's a childbirth related thing because you used to have to slap them when they come out. Do they still do that? Although that always seemed a bit harsh to me. "Hello new person welcome to the world that you are going to live in for the rest of your life, let's make the first thing that happens to you a swift slap!" I know why they do it, it just seems a little unkind that it had to be the babies first experience of the world. It seems to me that a persons first experience of the world should be a little kinder.

Which does bring me on rather nicely for a change to what I wanted to talk about today. R.A.K or Random Acts of Kindness. You see I don't claim to be able to change the world, but I do claim, that if we all did tiny things to make other peoples life seem a little better, together we actually could. You see it doesn't take much to do something kind or a little bit thoughtful. It just needs to be enough to make the person it's aimed at think "Aww, that was nice" So really it could be anything! If someone in the house has come downstairs and has just announced they have forgotten something they want to bring down, offer to nip upstairs and get it. Or if they have just sat down, leap up and ask if they want a brew?

Of course it works even better if the person you are doing it for is a complete stranger. Just give up your place in the shopping queue to let them go first. (So long as they don't have a stacked trolley full obviously, that would be foolish) Hold a door open for someone. Or if you're at a car park, offer to pay for the person behind you in the queue for the ticket machine (If you have a spare 80p or £1.20. Or if you're out, offer to buy the bar tender a drink. Or at a restaurant make the tip a little more than you would do normally. There are literally hundreds of tiny little things we can do for other people to make them think "Awww, that was nice!". Even if you think they look grumpy and look like they don't deserve it, those are probably the people who need it the most I reckon.

You see if we all did that, the world would be a much nicer place, people would smile more, people would be more friendly. It would also have a knock on effect and it would make people want to do something small and nice for another person too, because they know how they felt when it happened to them. So as you can see a little bit of thoughtfulness and nice goes an awful long way.

So I hope this Friday Eve, treats you well. Do look after yourselves and each other (haven't said that for a while!) and go and do something tiny, but nice for someone else.

LARGE CARL HUGS to you all.
xx

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